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April 17, 2014
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My husband is sleeping with a 'dry foot' girl
Dear Pastor,

I wrote to you some time ago about my marriage. I told you that I am facing a challenge because my husband of 16 years has been seeing another woman. This girl sometimes sees me on the road and she throws words. When I complain to my husband about it, he tells me that he spoke to her and she said that nothing of the sort is going on. I have no reason to lie on this girl.

She is now driving a car and people say that it is my husband who bought it for her and I am still walking. I don't need a car because I am not living far from where I am working. She is still living in a rent house but I am living in my own house so I know that I am in a better position than she is. I would like my husband to leave this girl and for her to stop molesting me.

I am not happy at all. I go to church but whenever I am going and coming home, I have to pass where the girl lives, and if I see her I get upset. I want her to know that I am not leaving my husband and he is not going to leave me because my name is tied up in everything that he has. Pastor, if you see the girl. I don't know what my husband sees in her. She is a slim, dry foot girl and I am firm and beautiful.

W.P

Dear W.P.,

Perhaps if your husband wanted to leave you he might have told you so. You have good reasons to believe that he is having an affair with this woman. He doesn't see her as a dry foot girl. He sees her as a beautiful young lady who is perhaps younger than you and with whom he can have a fling. You say that she throws words at you. That might be hard for you to take all the time. But how can you really be sure that when she is throwing these so-called words they are directed to you? You are going to have to learn to ignore this girl at all times.

You are confident that your husband is not going to leave you, so live as if she does not exist, and please caution your husband that if he is having sex with this girl at all (which I don't expect him to admit) he should always use the condom. That does not mean that you are giving him licence to go out and fly his kite, so to speak. You are only trying to protect him and yourself from sexual diseases.

Pastor

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