If I am married and my husband fathered a child with another woman, and told me about it, I would gladly take on the role of a mother to that child. However, under no circumstances would I continue to live with a man who had a child outside our marriage if I am fully able to have children. If that child ever needed my help, I would always be there but I would never want to have anything to do with a man who cheated on me.

I don't believe there is an excuse for cheating. When a man cheats, he is telling me I lack something he desires, so he went out to get what I don't have. I would send him back to where he found his desire, so he could have his heart content.

S

Dear S,

What you are saying is there is no room for forgiveness if your husband fathers a child with another woman. Let us hope that never happen.

Pastor