The only thing that has changed for the worst in my 30 years of marriage is sex. Everything else is perfect. But the sex I got in the past 30 years will have to keep me. My husband is the best husband, so I cannot take myself and turn a dog when everything else is so good. Pastor, I am coming to see you one day and tell you the full story. I have changed certain things.

D.F

Dear D.F.,

I think what you are trying to say is that, now that your husband is old, he does not perform as well in bed as he used to do. But you will not allow that to cause you to cheat with other men. You would rather live on 'precious memories'. You are a good woman.

Pastor