Dear Pastor,

A big turn-off in the bedroom for me is an unhygienic situation. The mouth, arms, toes and other body parts should be cared for properly. Women who wear false hair should not allow them to get that 'funky smell'. Men who wear caps should avoid wearing sweaty and smelly caps.

B

Dear B,

Everyone should practise proper hygiene, male or female. If two people love each other and communicate well, they should discuss their problems with each other without offending the other.

Pastor