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February 26, 2015
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She says it's too big

Dear pastor

My girlfriend is 20 years old and I am 21. She complains a lot that my penis is too big for her. Sometimes when I am trying to get it in, she groans. And by the time I get through, she is crying. so I put a little vaseline on the condom to get my penis into her vagina easier. When I did it the first time, she did not know that I did it. The next time I was about to do it, she saw me. When I opened the container with the vaseline she said no, she said that she did not want me to do that because it would create problems for her.

Pastor, I would love to marry this girl. I don't think my penis is too large. I think that her vagina needs to stretch. Is that possible?

A.T.

Dear A.T.

The young woman says that your penis is too large. Accept what she says. Both of you are planning to get married and this problem should be discussed with a family counsellor. These things are covered in premarital counselling, especially when the couple is young.

Perhaps you do not practise foreplay. Perhaps it is just a matter of 'come let us have sex girl', and you start having sex. In foreplay, the woman is prepared for sex. It is easier to insert the penis into the vagina. And the woman should not experience such pain, if any pain at all. If you try to just have sex with a woman without getting her prepared, the experience might be painful.

Women spend big money in try to reduce the size of their vagina. I am sure that your woman would be very upset if you were to tell her that her vagina should be larger. Would you like her to tell you to cut off your penis and make it smaller?

Do not use vaseline on the condom. it can cause your girlfriend to get an infection.

Pastor

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