Dear Pastor,

Women who complain about their husbands are right to do so if their husbands are not giving them the attention that they need. My husband dedicates two evenings for me, Saturday and Sunday. He does not go anywhere without me on a Saturday evening. Sometimes we go to see a play or so, but Friday night is a night for the boys. That is how he has operated for more than 10 years since we are married. He comes in late on Friday nights, sometimes way after midnight. I don't quarrel with him because I know Friday night is not for me.

I know some of his friends and I know they cover up for each other. I don't make that bother me. so, to all married women out there, learn to live with your husbands. Give them a break. If you don't, they may break your heart.

M.N

Dear M.N.,

You are a wise woman. Your husband would stay with you because you are not nagging and foolish. That is all I have to say.

Pastor