Dear Pastor,

Thank you for the ‘Dear Pastor’ show. It has cleared up a lot of questions for me. I am going through a lot in my life. Things that I could not imagine would happen to me have happened. Everything seems to be falling apart. Nothing is working for me. I have never been concerned for myself, so I decided to stay single for years. Eight months ago I met a man. I didn’t know whether I should give him a chance in my life because I did not feel that this man is really interested in me.

Please pray for me and for this guy. Pray that everything will work out fine.

K

Dear K,

Give this relationship time, but at the same time try to be cautious. Don’t throw yourself at the guy. Listen to him but don’t question him a whole lot. If you were to ask a question and he is reluctant in answering, don’t press the issue. If he asks you to give him loans and so on, tell him no. When a relationship is new and the man ask the woman for a loan, that is a clue that he is not the type of man that the woman should have in her life. He is likely to always borrow her money and not pay her back. The relationship should end right there.

You ought to know where this man lives and if he fails to tell you, you should never go back on another date with him. And if he gives you an address, check it out without letting him know.

Pastor