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Ex-Man Sweetness

Good Evening, Raga. Ok, here it goes; I am currently with a man who I have been with for the last seven years. We have two children together, but one passed away years ago. We been through a lot together, especially with having to bury our first born. But, I also have an ex that I was only with for about three years, but still kept in contact over the years. I met him 11 years ago, and I swear he was my first real love. Raga, I still get butterflies when I see him. We remained friends and about six months after breaking up, 11 years ago. I left him because he was 'wild'. Raga, him did have woman wid mi and I find out and I just tek weh myself. Long story short, for the past four years we are more than just friends!!! We are sexually involved now but no real sex. Just mostly swiping nine out of 10 times, we do it to each other but mostly he just want to do it to me. He don't even care if mi do it back. Raga, I swear I feel like it a mash up my head!!! Him do it so good!! Better than my current man, and even in regular sex my ex-man can mek me cum in 10 minutes! Everytime! But with my current man he cannot mek mi cum. I don't know if he just not hitting the right spot. Nuff time I have to pretend that I come to make him feel good, but I'm left unsatisfied, which is not fair to me, but I don't know what to do. My ex want me back but he knows his place and don't loud up the thing.

Another important thing, my ex-man and current man know each other and are friends with some of the same people, but they never could get along. Both of them a hot head! So they don't deal with each other. Just 'hi and bye' and sometimes they don't hail each other. My current man know I was with my ex many years ago, but when we met seven years ago, he never told me he knew my ex-man cuz he thought I wouldn't give him the time of day!!! So the first year of our relationship he never told me he knew my ex-man. When I got pregnant, he told me everything, that time he felt like he had me now so he could tell me the truth.

Raga, before I meet both of them they lived in the same house through a mutual friend for like a year. But because they could not get along, my current man moved out. So I feel like I was tricked into talking to someone my ex-man knew very well, but I had no knowledge of it til a year later. My ex-man - I love differently, we have a better mental connection, sex tun ova, and he is more kind and loving. My current man - I love him, but not as strong like I do with my ex. We have just been through so much, with the loss of a child, and a few years later had another child. So something is there... But I don't feel like he has my back like my ex. If I'm in need of something I would more run to my ex-man over my current man which is crazy!!!!! And the last icing on the cake my current man is also my fiancé, but since he proposed we have not made any wedding plans, and I'm not pushing getting prepared to get married. So confused!!!! I'm 29 yrs old, my fiancé is 31 yrs old, and my ex-man is 33 yrs, and is currently single, and no longer runs around from woman to woman ... it's all about work and his kids. He cool off with the Gallis ting!

Hmmmmmm???

1. The grass is not always greener on the other side, even though it may look soh. And even if it greener, it still gwaan need whole heap a water fi keep it green. Be careful.

2. It might be di case dat yuh current man did draw fi yuh partly or mostly because true him an yuh ex-man used to war him did jus waan sex an lock yuh dung. Why else him neva tell yuh say him know yuh ex-man an used to war him? An ongle tell yuh afta him breed yuh?

3. It could also be dat yuh ex-man bex say him enemy now have him one time girl, and dat might be di main motivation why him waan yuh back now. Or probably unu really have a genuine love fi unu one anneda.

4. If di two a dem a really hot head den yuh need to be careful, cuz yuh would be playing a dangerous game.

5. Since yuh ex-man swiping tun up soh much dat it a buss up inna yuh head, den yuh need to mek sure a nuh dat a mek yuh feel say yuh well in love. Propa-propa sort-out an taser-tongue swiping can tun people inna eediat an mek dem feel say dem oh so in love, wen nuttin nuh goh soh. Be careful.

Awright peeps, a leggomentz ya now. Link mi wid unu mix-up dem at ragashanti@ragashanti.com. Bless up unu self.

Road!