Dear Pastor,

This is my second letter to you and I would like you to help me again. I wrote to you about my boyfriend who was very abusive and you told me what to do. I am now working and taking care of my baby. My uncle used to help me support my baby, but I stopped taking money from him because one day he asked me for sex. When I reminded him that he was my uncle, he said that he was not sure that my father is his brother, so nothing would be wrong. He is the dead stamp of my father, so I refused his money and he called me a fool.

His girlfriend was having a party for him and she invited me, but I did not go. After the birthday party, had past, I saw his girlfriend and she wanted to know why I did not attend. I lied and told her that I was having my period and was not well. My uncle is a nasty man. I found out that he had sex with another niece.

B.E

Dear B.E.,

You are an intelligent girl. You accepted the help that your uncle offered you. You did not expect him to ask you for sex as payment for the help that he was giving to you. Your uncle is grossly immoral and I am sure that, if you were to tell his girlfriend that he approached you for sex, she would not believe and she would likely say that you are making up stories on your uncle.

You said he had sexual intercourse with one of his nieces. Family members should be told that he cannot be trusted so they should not leave their girl children alone with him at any time.

Pastor