Dear Pastor,

I want to ask you something. Why is it that some men like to rush into sexual intercourse when they are with their women? Where are these men going why they have to rush into the sex act? Why is it that black men can't have sex slowly with their women? Why do they have to do a rush job?

T.R.

Dear T.R.,

I suppose some men are just anxious, so they don't take time for foreplay. They are pushers and pushers know nothing about lovemaking. Lovemaking is an art and some men (and women, too) have never learnt the art of making love. That is why some wives are left unsatisfied and either masturbate, or cry themselves to sleep while their husbands are snoring after they have ejaculated. When a woman has a man who is in a hurry to have sex with her, it is time for them to seek professional help.

Pastor